There's an urgency when it comes to lube. When you need lube, you need it now. So what do you do if things are getting hot and heavy, and you realize you're out of stock? You could put your clothes back on and run to the nearest drug store while your naked partner twiddles their thumbs waiting for you
What is it like to get fisted?
Savage Love: Is there such a thing as too much fisting?
If your idea of fisting is having someone shove their clutched fist up your vagina , then you've got it all wrong. Instead of that punch to the vag approach, fisting actually consists of your partner entering his or her fingers into your love tunnel one by one—until all five digits are past the threshold. However, when done in a safely with a partner you trust, fisting can provide a pleasurable sense of fullness and lots of vaginal stimulation , says Kerner. So if you and your S. Safety First Because your vagina is about to experience some seriously stimulating "fullness," Kerner recommends keeping lots of lube on hand to use throughout the experience. Hygiene is another major factor when getting hands-y, he says.
What Is Fisting, Really?
My roommate is a gay man who is into getting fisted. A lot. We were FWBs until he moved into my place, at which point we agreed it would be better for us to not have sex anymore. As soon as he comes home from work, he spends a good hour in the bathroom cleaning out, and then some guy comes over to fist him. Every single day.
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