More importantly, how does this notion figure within a Godly context of dating? In this article, Pastor Jim explores this concept in greater detail with insight for Christian singles. How long has this saying been around? Obviously it has been an indicator of human behavior for longer than you and I have been around.
Are Opposites Always Attractive?
Opposites Attract - The Psychology Of
Heck, we were all raised on Disney-ified versions of this I'm looking at you, Belle and Beast, and Anna and Kristoff , so it's kind of hard not to buy into this concept. Case in point: That motorcycle-loving jock you were obsessed with in high school. But this concept that opposites attract may have stuck around because it's kinda easy to think someone is your opposite when they're actually not—or not really. Do people match up best with others who are nothing like them?
The Truth on Whether 'Opposites Attract'
After every breakup I've gone through, the most common comment my friends make—aside from the loyal bestie statement that they never liked him to begin with—is that I had nothing of real substance in common with these boys: "You can't have a relationship based solely on the fact that you both like staying at nice hotels. I'm a pop culture—obsessed, sports-loving book nerd who happens to adore New York City nightlife. But I tend to fall for homebodies who couldn't care less about the newest speakeasy opening in the Lower East Side and haven't picked up a novel since it was required in high school. I'm also not very religious and am admittedly frivolous with my money, while the boys I've dated come from different but strong religious backgrounds and are quite frugal. Maybe it's my competitive nature to overcome any obstacle thrown at me, but the hopeless romantic in me cannot stop believing my soul mate will be someone who is nothing like me.
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