I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me. As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone. Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs, to give him a taste of his own medicine. But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like double the punishment. And how else does one get what one wants out of sex than by talking about it?
How to Receive Oral Sex the Right Way
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In seriously depressing but not-so-surprising news: There are some big differences between the sexes when it comes to going down on each other. According to a study of undergrads from Canada, published in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality , women are twice as likely to have given oral without ever getting it in return 26 percent vs. Definitely not cool, guys. What's even suckier, only 28 percent of women said they actually enjoyed giving blow jobs—despite the fact that they were doing it more.
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And while indulging in this once-taboo sexual activity it used to be a punishable offense in some states, amazingly can be a healthy part of any romantic relationship, there are definitely some things to keep in mind. Not many women want to or think to ask about it. Maybe it's because oral isn't penetration in a traditional sense, or perhaps it's because the act can't lead to conception.
When it comes to performing oral sex , it can be as helpful knowing what not to do as what you should be doing. With some help from my friends, here's a definitive guide of what to avoid when you're going down:. If your hand skills are good enough, you barely have to use your lips. You can basically breathe on it and he'll come. So learn how he likes to be jerked off.